Things in life are often fate...
Just like an encounter with one person...
At times, you can be so close to one person but never know who she or he is. At times, you can just suddenly get to know some strangers and become great friends.
There are moments where you come so close to knowing someone, but just a twist of events can delay your encounter with that person for years or maybe the person will never come into your life again.
It is so amazing and unbelievable what have can do.....
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Sunday, August 26, 2007
The light from within
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are the child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightening about shrinking so that people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
Nelson Mandela (1994)
This speech was used in the show Coach Cater! One of my favorite quote. Learn to shine and others will shine together with you!
Nelson Mandela (1994)
This speech was used in the show Coach Cater! One of my favorite quote. Learn to shine and others will shine together with you!
Sunday, August 19, 2007
Never turn down a job because you think it's too small; you don't know where it could lead
The above quote is from Julia Morgan, if you know who she is.
Fly through a small window and you can reach the entire world. Thats a fact that lots of people don't know.
Small things in life always have huge effect. A decision made today may seem insignificant. However, the effect of each decision we make affects every single bit of our life.
Every opportunities that we come by, and every such opportunities that we gave up may have led us to a different stage of life...
So beware!!!! Don't make the mistake of ignoring the insignificant just cause it is insignificant, it may have tremendous effect on you LIFE!!!!
Fly through a small window and you can reach the entire world. Thats a fact that lots of people don't know.
Small things in life always have huge effect. A decision made today may seem insignificant. However, the effect of each decision we make affects every single bit of our life.
Every opportunities that we come by, and every such opportunities that we gave up may have led us to a different stage of life...
So beware!!!! Don't make the mistake of ignoring the insignificant just cause it is insignificant, it may have tremendous effect on you LIFE!!!!
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Sunday, July 29, 2007
Regrets
there are a few regrets in life which i have to live with forever..
This is quoted from someone...
It is very true that everyone will have some regrets to live with forever, but however, is these regrets that makes us grow and learn to appreciate and prevent us from having more of such regrets in life....
Thus, those regrets can be positive only....it all depends on how you view it....
Cheers =)
This is quoted from someone...
It is very true that everyone will have some regrets to live with forever, but however, is these regrets that makes us grow and learn to appreciate and prevent us from having more of such regrets in life....
Thus, those regrets can be positive only....it all depends on how you view it....
Cheers =)
Friday, July 27, 2007
Thursday, July 26, 2007
Quote for the day
There's something in the way you look at me, Its as if my heart knows you're the missing piece, You make me believe that there's nothing in this world I can't be, I never know what you see, But there's something in the way you look at me
Monday, July 23, 2007
Thought for the day
Story telling time...
Once a upon time, there's a farmer who lives happily in a small town. He had always aspired to become rich some day and always believed that being rich is the only thing that can make his life even better.
So he worked diligently everyday, and wish that he will be successful someday. One day, the god of fortune took pity on the farmer. The god gave the farmer a choice, the farmer can either continue to be his farmer, stay in the town he grew up in, or choose to become rich overnight and leave the town he had grown up in.
The farmer gave it some thoughts and chose to give up on the place he grew up in and moved to another place and become rich overnight.
Months have passed and the wealth of the farmer had grew as the days pass. However, the farmer misses the people in the town and became very unhappy. He wished that he felt that he had made a wrong choice and went back to the god again and hope that he will undo everything and make him the happy farmer he once was.
However, the god told the farmer that when the farmer made the decision, the god had already told the farmer that he will not be able to undo his decision. So the farmer was utterly disappointed. Then the god asked him another qns, "If you were to make the decision once more, do you think you will be better off?"
Thats for us to go think about.
Thought for the day: "if you were to live your life once more, will there be any difference?"
This is a question that i believe no one can ans, cos no one will know what will be the consequences of the other path that we didn't take. And most important of all, it is not the decision that decides how we feel towards our life, but our attitude and actions. Thus, live a life without regrets by embracing what you believe is best for you.
Stop and take a look around in your life, see if you had missed out anything. =)
Thats all folks!!!
Once a upon time, there's a farmer who lives happily in a small town. He had always aspired to become rich some day and always believed that being rich is the only thing that can make his life even better.
So he worked diligently everyday, and wish that he will be successful someday. One day, the god of fortune took pity on the farmer. The god gave the farmer a choice, the farmer can either continue to be his farmer, stay in the town he grew up in, or choose to become rich overnight and leave the town he had grown up in.
The farmer gave it some thoughts and chose to give up on the place he grew up in and moved to another place and become rich overnight.
Months have passed and the wealth of the farmer had grew as the days pass. However, the farmer misses the people in the town and became very unhappy. He wished that he felt that he had made a wrong choice and went back to the god again and hope that he will undo everything and make him the happy farmer he once was.
However, the god told the farmer that when the farmer made the decision, the god had already told the farmer that he will not be able to undo his decision. So the farmer was utterly disappointed. Then the god asked him another qns, "If you were to make the decision once more, do you think you will be better off?"
Thats for us to go think about.
Thought for the day: "if you were to live your life once more, will there be any difference?"
This is a question that i believe no one can ans, cos no one will know what will be the consequences of the other path that we didn't take. And most important of all, it is not the decision that decides how we feel towards our life, but our attitude and actions. Thus, live a life without regrets by embracing what you believe is best for you.
Stop and take a look around in your life, see if you had missed out anything. =)
Thats all folks!!!
Thursday, July 19, 2007
Interesting
Today on leave...so went to surf the web...found some interesting studies...haha
Go take a look...one is about gossip and one is about having sex while sleeping...damn cool...hahaha don't how they manage to do such things when slping....
Gossip:
Sex while sleeping:
some art piece from my work place...enjoy!!!
Monday, July 16, 2007
Being Dead Drunk
On Friday, it was david's last day....
We had a small celebration at Ninja which is at City Hall ...Raffles Link...
But before the dinner...Jayne and David got conflict...haha and it was over some very minor issue...i feel...
It took quite a while to comfort Jayne until we had our dinner proper at 7 plus and i had to give up like 30 mins of my phone's talktime to comfort her....
Even with such a small hiccup..but the evening turned out quite well after we went to Bala...the pub at suntec...
Too bad Jiahui didn't go...she had a small accident while driving her maid to collect something, and her family car's door was dented...the worse part is the other driver didnt want to pay for the damages...so she had to report it to the insurance and she may lose her insurance premium because of that.
I talked to her on the phone after the accident and she sounded quite calm...ahha and that was quite unexpected.
The most exciting part comes later, when david started to drink with us and got dead drunk...
This is one of the many pic i took...
I was warned not to upload anymore pics otherwise i will get it fr the drunk david...lol
ANyway we had fun, and pls guys out there....even if u are having fun pls try to control...it is damn terrible to take care of someone who is drunk....lucky david is still quite sober in his drunk state and he manages to direct the taxi driver back to his home even through he cant stand on his own...lol...NICE one dAve....
good night
Thursday, July 12, 2007
Responsibility is a heavy burden
Eh..happy to meet up Jiahao and Mag today!!!
But sorry guys...i think u all waited 1 and half hours for me....
It is cause of the stupid Aikyu Trading which is my first audit job and i think i totally screwed it up without guidance lol....
There is alot of unfinished task and there is alot of loose ends...Chand was quite pissed as bob who is supposed to review did not do a good job...so i had to stay back and help out...i stayed till quite late and i am quite sian...especially cause my phone is low batt...and i will have problem finding jiahao and mag...and as expected i took quite a while to find the place...
Well, the incident today force me to think about being responsible in life...we always do something or go into something without knowing what are the responsibility that we have to bear...
That often will result in disaster when problem arises...especially when we don't wanna take up the responsibility...
In life there is so many many responsibilities for us to bear, to family, to friends, to your lover, to the society practically to everyone....how many of us can really fulfill all of them???
haha...
Good Night
But sorry guys...i think u all waited 1 and half hours for me....
It is cause of the stupid Aikyu Trading which is my first audit job and i think i totally screwed it up without guidance lol....
There is alot of unfinished task and there is alot of loose ends...Chand was quite pissed as bob who is supposed to review did not do a good job...so i had to stay back and help out...i stayed till quite late and i am quite sian...especially cause my phone is low batt...and i will have problem finding jiahao and mag...and as expected i took quite a while to find the place...
Well, the incident today force me to think about being responsible in life...we always do something or go into something without knowing what are the responsibility that we have to bear...
That often will result in disaster when problem arises...especially when we don't wanna take up the responsibility...
In life there is so many many responsibilities for us to bear, to family, to friends, to your lover, to the society practically to everyone....how many of us can really fulfill all of them???
haha...
Good Night
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
Expect the unexpected
Lesson for the day...
whatever you have planned may not work out the way you wanted it to be....
You require adaptability and quick-thinking when it comes to execution of the task....
So expect the unexpected and be prepared !!!!
Good night
whatever you have planned may not work out the way you wanted it to be....
You require adaptability and quick-thinking when it comes to execution of the task....
So expect the unexpected and be prepared !!!!
Good night
Monday, July 9, 2007
troubled world!!!!
this world is full of troubles....without troubles people will not learn how to appreciate the happiness that is so rare....
Talk to two persons about their relationships problem tonight...haha dun worry i am not going to say the things we talked abt here...so chill chill...
Relationship is built on trust, communication and commitment...thats wat i said to one of them...and i believe it works not only for BGR but also friendships and other form of relationships...
Often, relationships fail because of the lack of one of the element above. everyone understands the logic, but few of us can actually put what we noe into use.
and this will most likely leads to regret....we only start to regret when things happen...
Regretting is the worse thing to do and the worse feeling of all....so to pple out there...try to live a life without regrets...even if u have done something wrong dun waste time regretting...do something to make ur life better!!!!
LIFE IS SO WONDERFUL!!!!
Talk to two persons about their relationships problem tonight...haha dun worry i am not going to say the things we talked abt here...so chill chill...
Relationship is built on trust, communication and commitment...thats wat i said to one of them...and i believe it works not only for BGR but also friendships and other form of relationships...
Often, relationships fail because of the lack of one of the element above. everyone understands the logic, but few of us can actually put what we noe into use.
and this will most likely leads to regret....we only start to regret when things happen...
Regretting is the worse thing to do and the worse feeling of all....so to pple out there...try to live a life without regrets...even if u have done something wrong dun waste time regretting...do something to make ur life better!!!!
LIFE IS SO WONDERFUL!!!!
Thursday, July 5, 2007
Meeting an old friend....
Met an old JC friend today....
He is working near my international plaza, and met him at the MRT that day...
So decided to meet up today and have dinner...
In fact, I dun exactly know him for very long...but somehow there is some sort of "click-ness"...
I have told pple about this, relationships often are like puzzles...it requires effort and the correct fitting...
To find a piece that is suitable to complete the puzzle is hard, it requires effort, but if the piece u are holding is the wrong piece or place at the wrong place, no matter how hard u try it will nv work...
I think this applies to all relationships, just like my friendship with this guy friend of mine, xuanwei...
We went shopping for present for her girlfriend...went coach and stores in taka and paragon....we talked abt lots of things...like future and career...
then i have a story then i wan to share...hahaha i think i have lots of stories to share!!!!
There is once a mentor told a story to his student...then the student did not understand the morale of the story...so he asked " sir, i am sorry to ask, but whats the morale of your story??"
The sir then asked,"how will you like someone to give u an apple, and chew it up for you before giving it to u?"
Guess you get what i am trying to say...life is for each individual to experience it...no matter how good the experience someone can tell u...it will nv beat experiencing it yourself for once!!!!
Lets enjoy this experience we have!!!!
And now let you guy see the car that i saw jus now...!!! i will really wish to drive this car!!!!
A pic of my colleagues....more to come so dun be jealous those not up here yet...
From top right in sequence Ade , Dorothy a.k.a Da Mian Bao and Karen.... then Cat, Chew Yen a.k.a DOG and Jayne a.k.a Radio...:p
Nightz
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
My 1st post
eh, was encouraged to post by my colleagues at CS choong
Had tried blogging long time ago but din have the commitment to blog, simply cos i am too lazy!!!
Was discussing with Jiahui that blogging shld be about one's reflection rather than just daily life events.
Thus, decided to that my blog will be mostly on my reflections rather than jus my daily life...but if my daily life is abit boring pls pardon me...cos i dun think i will have so many reflections to post about!!!!!
So, as a start for my blog, I shall share a nice phase and a nice story with those reading this blog...
Every human being has a pair of ears, a pair of eyes, a pair of hands, a pairs of legs, a pair of lungs, a pair of kidney, however, we only have one heart....that's cause the creator of human had place the other heart in some part of the world waiting for us to notice it, discover it, and be together with it. Only when we find that other piece of heart, our life will be complete....=)
This phase i forgot whether i have seen it somewhere or someone told me abt it, but i have always believe in this phase cause no one can live on Earth without any love in their heart.
Thats the phase i wan to share with everyone as for the story....
this is the story of a corn.....
A student asked a teacher, "what is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the padi field and choose the biggest padi and come back. But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big padi,but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is a even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to realise that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regreted !!!!
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person...."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher. The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage."
Well, thats the story i wanted to share...i feel that this story truly explains the mentality of one at different stage...any comments? let me noe...i like to noe how others feel abt this story too =)
Sorry that this blog is full of things about love...haha will talk abt more stuff the next time....
Thats all folks!!!
A pic of my colleagues...
Had tried blogging long time ago but din have the commitment to blog, simply cos i am too lazy!!!
Was discussing with Jiahui that blogging shld be about one's reflection rather than just daily life events.
Thus, decided to that my blog will be mostly on my reflections rather than jus my daily life...but if my daily life is abit boring pls pardon me...cos i dun think i will have so many reflections to post about!!!!!
So, as a start for my blog, I shall share a nice phase and a nice story with those reading this blog...
Every human being has a pair of ears, a pair of eyes, a pair of hands, a pairs of legs, a pair of lungs, a pair of kidney, however, we only have one heart....that's cause the creator of human had place the other heart in some part of the world waiting for us to notice it, discover it, and be together with it. Only when we find that other piece of heart, our life will be complete....=)
This phase i forgot whether i have seen it somewhere or someone told me abt it, but i have always believe in this phase cause no one can live on Earth without any love in their heart.
Thats the phase i wan to share with everyone as for the story....
this is the story of a corn.....
A student asked a teacher, "what is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the padi field and choose the biggest padi and come back. But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big padi,but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is a even bigger one waiting for him. Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to realise that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regreted !!!!
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person...."
"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher. The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage."
Well, thats the story i wanted to share...i feel that this story truly explains the mentality of one at different stage...any comments? let me noe...i like to noe how others feel abt this story too =)
Sorry that this blog is full of things about love...haha will talk abt more stuff the next time....
Thats all folks!!!
A pic of my colleagues...
The rest of u dun be jealous u guys will be up here soon =)
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